STOP VICTIMISING YOURSELF IT IS NOT COOL!!

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 Let me tell you one thing there are number of people in the world that has honestly worse than you! Trust me that doesn’t mean your emotions doesn’t have value but that means despite of the situation people are going through they tend to keep going.

And what are you talking about? Crying about??? Being heartbroken?? Seriously?? Stop constantly degrading yourself by allowing disrespect from people who doesn’t even deserve your presence!! DISRESPECT IS NOT A JOKE!! 

LEARN TO SET BOUNDARIES, letting toxic people in is gonna delay your result. There are people out there who burn-out themselves by working several jobs, while getting their degree just because they have some “goal” for their future and they tend to work for it; there are people out there constantly working their ass off just because they don’t wanna fit it, and trust me that's a privilege one could hold. 

Learn to EDUCATE yourself on several things, because that's the only thing you have till the end of the time! If you are thinking that studying, reading books, standing up for yourself, being confident, having a job while you are pursuing your education is bOrInG and it takes “too” much efforts! THEN CONGRATULATIONS you are the dumbest person ever to exist!!


Constantly watching American Series, being obsessed with the culture but still expecting parents to pay for you after the age of 18 is not cool!! “Oh but they're my parents,” definitely they’re that's why they buy your shit, because you are their child.


LEARN TO UPSKILL YOURSELF!! Don’t even get started I don’t have this and that! You got your smartphone! There are plenty of things available in that; if you have time to flirt with a person across the city trust me you have plenty of time to get your life together.


BEING CONSISTENT, PLANNING your day beforehand is going to give you time for plenty of things. There’s literally nothing impossible; it’s your MINDSET that’s stopping you. And the world does not revolve around you! Its not important that if THIS specific thing is happening here it will HAPPEN like this exactly everywhere. World has so much to offer, you just have to get out of YOUR COMFORT ZONE to achieve it. Everyday is not gonna be the same but at the end what matters is that YOU DID IT.

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